Hi friends,
Every day there is news about molesting or raping of a woman. Our country has lost its glory of sacred culture. We have to find a solution to it. Feminists may find some of my views are conservative. Personal enmity, robing of the jewels, lust are some of the reasons that can be attributed.
Personal enmity can be settled by reporting to the police and arriving at an amicable solution. Regarding jewels, to avoid chain snatching they can walk on the right side of the road. They can cover the jewels with their dress or keep it in a bank locker.
The most predominant factor is lust. Not all men but only a few are lustful. It is a desire for physical gratification. No education can cure this. In a country where womenfolk are worshiped, to see this happening is a shame. Everyone should feel as if it is his own loss.
They should condemn and go to the help of the victim to protect them. They should not be silent spectators. They should call the police. Every man should take a wow that he will not get attracted to any woman and he will consider them as his mother and sister.
The women should have more powers for self-defense. Special courts can be formed to deal with the cases. The punishment for rape and molestation should be very severe. The courts should decide the cases within a short period. In our country, sex is considered holy and sacred.
The women should also understand. There is chaos, greed, poverty, anarchy, lawlessness, violence, hatred, perversion, communal intolerance, corruption, religious fanaticism, unemployment, lack of education, instigation by cinema, etc. The damage once done cannot be retrieved.
The women are physically weak. They are the ultimate sufferers physically, mentally and psychologically. They should protect themselves. They can get combative training. They can carry chilly or pepper powder to spray on the face. They can take a penknife or toy pistol to threaten the culprit.
They should not go out alone. During the night, they should take a male escort. They can desist from developing friendship or acquaintance with unknown people. They can inform their parents/elder brother/husband of any untoward incident. Freedom brings only misery.
They can wear a modern protective dress like jeans etc. Women should not wear exhibiting or enticing or inviting dresses. They can go for safe and honorable jobs like teaching, or 9 to 5 daytime work, etc. If a Saree falls on a bush of thorn, it is the Saree that gets damaged and not the thorn.
According to Wikipedia, "there is a misconception that it happens only among the "illiterate and poor" which is not true. It occurs among the "educated and rich", including those who have been abroad for higher education or have significant exposure to other countries.
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