THE SECRET OF HAPPY LIVING

Hi friends

Without peace of mind, there is no happiness. Many people are clueless. Here are some important points that give you peace of mind and happiness.

ONE

1. Parents are living Gods. You have bad children but not bad parents. Do pranam to them daily. Talk to them and inquire about their health, sleep, food etc passionately.

2. Wife is your best friend. There may be a misunderstanding. That is life. Solve it on the same day. Do not carry over to the next day. Talk to her with love and convince her patiently.

3. Never let down your mother or wife. If one complains about the others ignore it. Convince them to have sympathy on the other. If you take sides, it is the end of your happiness.

4. Brothers and sisters are God-given. They are important. All are not fortunate. Visit them often. Be friendly with them. Do not fight/argue and develop misunderstanding.

5. Never be at the receiving end for anything from anyone including your children and friends. You should always give and not receive.

6. Do not fail to do your duties irrespective of your likes and dislikes. Lead a simple, honest and straight forward life and fear nothing.

7. Appreciate. Do not criticize. Develop the habit of appreciating others for whatever they do. This gives happiness to them and also to you.

8. Be independent until your health permits. You may join your children thereafter. Plan to have your own income and cover medical insurance.

9. Once you join them, do not interfere in their life. Do not demand or command or advice. Mind your business and lead your own life even if you are with them.

10. Learn to detach yourself from everyone and everything. Attachment is the root cause of all worries. Have 60% detachment and 40% attachment to anything including you.

11. Once you finish your duties, write your Will and get ready mentally for your last journey. Renounce everything one by one and pray to God daily to give you peaceful death.

12. Any other point you may consider that will make you happy and peaceful.

TWO

An American couple was celebrating their 30th wedding anniversary. It was unusual for Americans couples to live together for so long due to their independent lifestyle. Someone asked them what was the secret of their success. The lady answered.

After our wedding, we got our first child. We then decided, if we live together happily for 10 years, we shall again marry in a famous church in Italy. We remarried in that church after 10 years.

We then decided to remarry again in a famous church in Russia if we live together happily for another 10 years. We remarried after 20 years.

We are now remarrying in this church after living together happily for 30 years with 3 children. You want to know the reason for the our success in life?  "WE NEVER SAY NO TO EACH OTHER" Can you do that?