Random thoughts 3171 to 3185.

3171. Previously with single income people were reasonably happy. Now with double income they are not that much happy. Lifestyle changes.

3172. It is never too late. Start a new career at 40, fall in love at 50, learn to play at 60, start a new life at 70. There is always a beginning.

3173. Previously the wife took care of the works inside the house and the husband outside the house. Now both are doing everything leading to choas.

3174. Q: Who is the most difficult to deal with? The most disciplined or the most indisciplined.

A: It depends on what you are.

3175. A ship without destination drifts. Life without goal loses the potential. Even the river gets dry if it doesn’t merge with the sea.

3176. Wolves are larger and live in packs, hunting large prey, while foxes are smaller, generally solitary, and hunt smaller animals.

3177. Ships don’t sink because of the water around them. Ships sink if the same water gets into them. Don’t allow others to drown you.

3178. Marriage doesn’t guarantee that it will last forever. It needs love, respect, trust, faith, friendship and understanding.

3179. Anger is a punishment that you give it to yourself for the mistakes done by the other person. Don’t punish yourself.

3180. Blabbering everything to everyone does not enhance your value. Keeping quiet actually increases your self esteem in others.

3181. Blabbering means to talk foolishly, mindlessly or excessively in a way people find it annoying or embarrassing.

3182. Anger is powerful but it often hurts you more than the person who caused it and you’re stuck with the burden. Please avoid.

3183. Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer. It drains your peace, focus, and energy.

3184. A candle doesn’t complain about the force of the wind. It burns as long as it can. True friends remain with you as long as they can.

3185. PURE LOVE cures all the people, both the one who gives it and the one who receives it. It looks better than a doctor.

A MOTHER HAS TWO ROLES.

Hi friends,

It is heartwarming to see people writing daily about the Mother, Maa, or Mom, etc. in social media glorifying her to the maximum. They are so captivated by the mother and she feels elated. But I sympathise the father.

Many do not realize the value of the father. Father's role is a thankless one. He is much adored when earning, ignored on holidays, and ill-treated after retirement. A man is respected until he earns and the woman until she works.

The mother satiates the hunger but the father cares about acquiring knowledge. Its importance will be known only later in life. In addition, he insists on rules, character, discipline, education, etc which are unwelcome. So the mother is more glorified.

After retirement, the father, wishing to give some rest to his wife, takes her to his son's house. The daughter-in-law, unable to cope up with the stress due to her children, education, employment, finance, domestic chores, ill-health, etc. expects the mother-in-law to contribute. Then the father, sympathizing with his wife, takes her to their daughter's house. The same situation prevails there and the daughter also expects her mother to contribute.

The most important point to be noted here is how the Mother feels about the two. She is happy to help the daughter but not the daughter-in-law. She feels that her daughter-in-law is enjoying her life with her son, whereas her daughter is suffering at her place. This feeling of partiality by the Mother is the root cause of all the problems in the world. 

The whole Universe will be happy only if the mother considers both her daughter and her daughter-in-law as equal. Then there is real meaning in GLORIFYING THE MOTHER.

Random thoughts 3156 to 3170.

3156. Walking is a good exercise to reduce weight. However, it is a punishment given to the legs for the mistakes done by the mouth.

3157. Life is like the train and love is like the track. Without the track, the train cannot run. Without the train, the track is useless.

3158. A yellow man is someone who brings sunshine and joy into your life, someone who makes you feel happy and forget about negativity.

3159. Every successful person has a painful story. Every painful story has successful endings. Accept the pain and wait for the success.

3160. There are only two ways of living your life. 1. As though nothing is a miracle. 2. As though everything is a miracle-Einstein.

3161. The wrong action will find you in peace but leave you in pieces. The right action will find you in pieces but lead you to peace.

3162. Real love doesn’t come with fancy dinners or gifts. It’s about being there for the other person when it matters the most.

3163. A small change in attitude can alter your entire life. The right mindset does not just shape moments, it shapes your future.

3164. Start with one hour. Increase it by every hour, every day and every month to stop talking and to find realisation.

3165. Men should always carry a handkerchief. You know why? To extend it to their wives when they get tears in their eyes.

3166. My request to the people is “ Read books, develop writing habits, listen to soulful music and use cellphones only for knowledge.”

3167. Grudging is the worst disease. It creates acidity in the gut and it affects your sleep and health. Forgive and forget. Live in peace.

3168. You have only 24 hours at your disposal. Either you can sleep from 10 pm to 6 am or from 1 am to 9 am. Choose wisely.

3169. You know why successful people attribute their success to their parents? This gesture further increases their status.

3170. When I was young, I rode my bicycle and fell down and hurt my knees. I am telling this to you now because there was no Facebook.Hahaha.