Wednesday, December 31, 2025

INCOME MINUS SAVINGS IS EXPENSE.

Hi friends,

On seeing this, you may pooh-pooh me. You may not have the patience even to read this. You may think, you have everything under your control and nothing will go out of your hand. The present generation has a good income but the cost of living is high.  A planned life will make it successful. 


People talk about transparency, accountability, right to information, etc. Without accounting, you do not know where you stand and it is difficult to go up in life. Here are some tips.


1. Laziness is the root cause of not writing accounts. You must have an inherent desire that you are paid for the job and the savings are your pay.


2. Slowly you become accustomed to it like other activities viz sleeping, bathing, eating, etc. Then you become an addict to it.


3. I am not computer savvy. I write manually. If you can develop accounting on the computer it is better and confidential.


4. To start with, buy a Chitta notebook [a half size] having Debit and Credit rulings containing 92 pages which will come for 2 to 3 years.


5. At the end of the day, both of you sit together and write all the day's expenses without any omission. This is called "daybook"


6. At the end of the month, on a rough paper, open different heads of account, according to your nature of spending, viz provisions, rice, milk, phone, veg, capital, etc and post every entry from "daybook" and find the total of each head of the account.


7. At the end of the notebook, open cols.for months horizontally and for heads of expenses vertically.


8. Post the total expenses in each head of the account in the respective month.


9. At the bottom, provide few lines for the income viz salary, rent, others, etc


10. The last line is for savings. Deduct the expense from income and post it against savings.


11. At the end of the year, total everything and find the total savings and investments made.


12. At the end of each month ANALYZE the expenses and assess where you have to control.


13. This analysis is most important otherwise there is no purpose of writing accounts.


14. If the savings are 50% of the income, it is good. If it is 60% it is very good.


15  Your income goes up regularly. If you control the expenses now and start saving, you will get better results.


16. If you think you can save later when the income is more,  you will never succeed.


17. Please bear in mind housing, education, medical expenses for self and parents, and retired life while planning.


18. Every wasteful expense will look like genuine. BEWARE.


19. Husband and wife should have a good understanding and cooperate with each other. Otherwise, it is better not to write and leave it to God as the family is more important than money.


20. One may be carefree or careful in spending. If both are carefree, they can not write. If both are careful, they find pleasure in writing. If one is careful and the other is carefree, it is better the accounts are written by the careful and the other should cooperate.


21. In writing accounts, you should have a long perspective and wait for the results.


22. Expenses on clothing should be controlled. Each member should have only 5 to 6 sets. Purchases should be made once in 4 years as a replacement after giving the old to the poor. No spending on birthday, festivals, etc.


23. When both are employed, there is a tendency to eat out often. This should be controlled as it is not good for health and the purse. You may go out once in a month.


24. Going for movies should be restricted to once in a month or once in two months.


25. There is difference between invitation and information.You should respect only invitation. Unless both families have visited and dined together mutually in their respective houses, it is not invitation.[colleagues excluded]


26. Normally people say income minus expense is savings, For you, it should be income minus savings should be expense.


27. Last but not the least, don't be a miser, life is to be enjoyed. 


I wish that this New Year 2026 will bring you good health, peace, prosperity and happiness.

Friday, December 26, 2025

WE CRY TWICE IN OUR LIFE.

Hi friends,


Shakespeare said, "all the world is a stage and all the men and women are players". It is very true. We all know about life. I am not writing anything new. It is old wine in a new bottle. It may enlighten someone not matured enough to understand the intricacies of life. Human life is divided into 7 stages.


CHILDHOOD: We are born crying into this world. We are as fresh as a flower. We do not have any desires, vices, etc. We are always under the love and care of our mother.  We know only love and nothing else. We are taught by our elders according to their knowledge, belief, and exposure and we follow it.


ADULTHOOD:  This is the time we learn both good and bad. We become matured. We make decisions according to our KARMA. It is believed, unfulfilled desires of the previous births take a predominant role in the formation of the character of a person. Accordingly, we develop into a good or bad human being.


HUSBAND/WIFE: At the proper age we are married. We get a spouse. It is believed that marriage is an important event in one's life as otherwise there will be no direction in life. It will become just like a boat caught in a whirlpool. Only after marriage, life becomes purposeful.


PARENT: We get our child. We become a father or mother. We become more responsible. Now we understand our parents. We think about how much they would have suffered to bring us up. We develop a lot of love for our child. We live the rest of our life to bring up the child.


GRANDPARENT: Until we are 60, till our retirement, we work hard for our family. We educate the children, construct a house, save money for us and for their future,  we get them married. We get the grandchildren through them and we feel our life is fulfilled.


OLD AGE:  Slowly we become old and start withering. We lose our physical strength, teeth, vision, hearing and get various diseases. We are not able to live independently. We long for love and care from our children but they are busy. Realization of God comes to us now.


GODLINESS: Realization leads to renunciation. We lose all interest in life and develop Bhakti towards Lord. We visit temples and pray for our salvation. We shed our ego and pride and surrender before the Lord. Once again, we become like a child crying for our peaceful death. MAY GOD BLESS US.

Tuesday, December 23, 2025

Random thoughts 3351 to 3365.

3351. Find someone who is proud to have you, scared to lose you, respects you, appreciates you and love you.


3352. The three stages of life: Wanting property, Accumulating property and Getting rid of property. Finally seeking inner peace.


3353. When I was born, pure ghee cost Rs.2.5/kg, milk was 12 paise per litre, Gold Rs.788/10 grams, Petrol 27 paise, and a cycle cost 90 to 100.


3354. When you find no solution to a problem, it's probably not a problem to be solved, but rather a truth to be accepted.


3355. Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace. So surrender your worries to God. 


3356. People who talk less are great listeners. One must talk to them more. People who talk more are great orators. One must listen to them more.


3357. A teaspoon of honey is the lifetime work of 12 bees. It roughly comes from 30,000 visits to the flowers for 750 miles of flight.


3358. Understanding yourself is Power. Loving yourself is Freedom. Forgiving yourself is Peace. Being yourself is Bliss.


3359. The parents can never give their children wisdom. It has to be earned only through experience. They will become experts after experiencing.


3360. Life goes on, with or without friends, with or without love. You were born alone, you will die alone. Focus on yourself.


3361. Studies say A power nap for 10-30 minutes, between 1-3 pm can help to restore mental clarity and fight off fatigue at work.


3362. "Hailing a country without denouncing the motherland does not constitute an offence of sedition," the court said.


3363. When the blind man is able to see, what is the first thing that he will do? He will throw away the stick that helped him so far.


3364. If a man says that he will do anything for a woman, he means he will fight bad guys and not wash clothes/dishes and vacuum.


3365. A new dating trend 'Shrekking' is about being in a relationship with someone less attractive than you to find a "happy love life".

Monday, December 22, 2025

WIFI OR MOBILE DATA?

Wi-Fi is generally better for speed, stability, and cost (no data caps) at home or fixed locations, ideal for streaming/gaming, while mobile data offers crucial portability and connectivity on the go, even if it's often slower and has usage limits, making it best for travel or areas without Wi-Fi. Use Wi-Fi when available for heavy tasks; switch to mobile data for flexibility, but be mindful of data caps to avoid extra charges. 


Wi-Fi: The Home/Fixed Location Choice

  • Pros:
    • Faster & More Stable: Connects to broadband, offering higher bandwidth for smoother streaming, gaming, and downloads.
    • Unlimited Data: Usually no data caps on home plans, saving money.
    • Connect More Devices: Easily connect multiple devices without extra costs.
  • Cons:
    • Limited Range: Speed drops with distance or walls; requires a router.
    • Congestion: Can slow down with too many users. 


Mobile Data: The Portable Choice

  • Pros:
    • Portability: Stay connected anywhere with cellular signal.
    • Security: Generally more secure from local snooping than public Wi-Fi.
  • Cons:
    • Slower & Less Stable: Varies greatly with signal strength and network traffic.
    • Data Caps: Plans often have limits, leading to overage fees.
    • Battery Drain: Can use more battery than Wi-Fi. 


When to Use Which

  • Choose Wi-Fi for: Streaming movies, video calls, large downloads, online gaming, or any intensive use at home/office.
  • Choose Mobile Data for:Navigation, browsing, social media on the go, or when Wi-Fi isn't available. 

Best Practice: Use Wi-Fi whenever possible for quality and cost savings, but rely on mobile data for freedom and connectivity when out and about. 

Monday, December 15, 2025

WITHIN FOUR FRAMES.

A few days back a person well known to me is no more. He is also a distant relative. I do not know why I have been thinking about him continuously for the past two days. Whenever I am idle, my thoughts go to him. He is much younger to me. 


I should have gone before him. I don't know how I lost in the race. As a matter of fact, nobody knows. He is a good man. A very pious man. A religious man. Far better than me. He has brought up his two children and they are well settled in life. 


He has a wonderful wife to take care of him and three grandchildren to play with. All of a sudden he has gone creating a vacuum in his place. His wife will find it difficult to manage without him. Among the two of them, when one is gone, the other always suffers. 


Loneliness kills. What for this life is meant? My thoughts go wild. We eat different foods, wear different dresses, see different films, talk about spiritualism, religion, politics, and other gossips, etc. We do so many things without having even an iota of thinking about our last day. 


In Mahabharat, the great Yudhishtra, while answering the questions of the Yatchan, said even after seeing so many people die, one thinks that he is going to live long, is the greatest wonder of the world. What happens when the number of counts of breaths assigned to us is over? 


No one knows for sure where we will go and what will happen to us. Have we done anything good for society for others to remember us after the inevitable? That is the purpose of life. Have we made our parents happy? Have we helped anyone poorer? 


Have we lived a life like a real human being? That is what matters the most. Otherwise, we will only be hanging on the wall WITHIN FOUR FRAMES. You like it?

Friday, December 12, 2025

AUTISM.

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) cannot be completely curedbecause it's a lifelong neurodevelopmental difference, not a disease, but with early intervention, therapies (like speech, behavioral, occupational), and ongoing support, individuals with autism can develop crucial life skills, thrive, and lead fulfilling lives by managing challenges and maximizing strengths. 


While some children may no longer meet diagnostic criteria as they grow (sometimes called "recovery"), it's more about significant development, and the focus is on personalized support rather than a cure. 


Key Points on Autism & "Cure" 


Not a Disease: Autism is a different way the brain develops and functions, a form of neurodivergence, not an illness to be fixed. 


Spectrum Condition: It affects people differently, so support is tailored to individual needs. 


Goal is Support: The aim of treatments is to build skills (social, communication, daily living), manage difficulties, and improve quality of life, not eliminate autism. 


Effective Approaches (Not Cures) 


Early Intervention: Starting therapies during the preschool years is highly beneficial. 

Therapies: Speech-language therapy, occupational therapy,and Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) help with communication, social interaction, and daily living skills. 

Medication: No medications treat autism itself, but some can help with related symptoms like anxiety, insomnia, or irritability, often alongside therapy. 

Support Systems: Education, family involvement, and accommodations help individuals reach their potential. 

What About "Recovery"? 


Studies show some children (estimates vary, 3-25%) no longer meet ASD criteria as they grow, developing typical skills, especially with early, intensive behavioral treatments. 


However, they might still have residual vulnerabilities like attention issues or co-occurring conditions (e.g., tics, anxiety). 


The overall message is that while a "cure" isn't the goal, significant positive development and a fulfilling life are achievable with the right support.


Source: Google.