A family in Mumbai’s Mulund area was left stunned by the groom’s unusual list of demands before the wedding.
However, these were not dowry-related demands — they were about bringing dignity, simplicity, and respect back into marriage traditions!
The groom’s conditions, which are now being widely discussed across the city, were as follows:
1️⃣ No pre-wedding shoot will be done.
2️⃣ The bride will wear a saree, not a lehenga.
3️⃣ Instead of loud, vulgar music, only soft instrumental music will be played during the wedding.
4️⃣ During the varmala (garland exchange), only the bride and groom will be present on stage.
5️⃣ Anyone trying to lift the bride or groom during varmala will be asked to leave the ceremony.
6️⃣ Once the priest begins the wedding rituals, no one will interrupt him.
7️⃣ The photographer/videographer will not interfere or stop the rituals for shots — photos should be taken quietly from a distance.
“This is a sacred wedding before the holy fire, not a film shoot.”
8️⃣ The bride and groom will not pose unnaturally for the camera as instructed by photographers.
9️⃣ The wedding ceremony must take place during the day, and the bidaai (farewell) should be completed by evening.
This ensures guests are not inconvenienced by late-night meals (which often cause insomnia, acidity, or indigestion) and can comfortably return home on time.
🔟 Anyone who asks the newlyweds to hug or kiss in public will be immediately removed from the venue.
It is reported that the bride’s family happily accepted all these conditions!
A beautiful step towards reforming society — truly worth emulating by all.
A wedding is a sacred union, not a spectacle. Respect tradition, maintain dignity, and avoid meaningless show-offs.
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