THE PROSTATE.

The prostate is a walnut-sized gland in the “male” reproductive system located just below the bladder and in front of the rectum. ( Females do not have prostate.)

It surrounds the urethra—the tube that carries urine and semen out of the body. Its primary function is to produce fluid that nourishes and transports sperm. 

Understanding what the prostate does and its associated conditions can help you better understand your reproductive and urinary health. 

What the Prostate Does?

The prostate’s main job is to produce a fluid that makes up about 20% to 30% of semen. This fluid is rich in enzymes, zinc, and citric acid, which protect sperm and help them survive. 

During ejaculation, muscles in the prostate contract to push this fluid into the urethra and mix it with sperm and fluid from the seminal vesicles.

Additionally, the prostate acts as a valve during urination and ejaculation, sealing off the bladder so urine doesn't mix with semen. 

Normal Changes with Age:

It is completely normal for the prostate to slowly grow larger as you age. 

In your 20s and 30s: 

It is roughly the size of a walnut.

As you get older: It can grow to the size of a lemon. 

Common Prostate Conditions:

Because the prostate wraps around the urethra, its enlargement can squeeze the tube, causing urinary symptoms. The three most common conditions are:

Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH): 

A noncancerous enlargement of the prostate. Symptoms include a weak urine stream, difficulty starting urination, or frequently needing to pee at night. 

Prostatitis: 

Inflammation or infection of the prostate, which can cause painful urination and pelvic pain. It affects men of all ages. 

Prostate Cancer: 

One of the most common cancers in men. It typically grows slowly and may not cause symptoms in its early stages, which is why routine screenings (like a PSA blood test) are often recommended after age 50. 

You can learn more about prostate health and testing protocols through the CDC Prostate Cancer Basics. 

HOW TO BE A GOOD GUEST?

There was a time, with no communication facility, friends and relatives longed to see each other once in a while and enjoy their company to develop love, affection, and intimacy. 

Now with modern development in communication, people do not have the mind or means to visit the other. However, there are certain unwritten rules to be observed during a visit to have smooth sailing. 

1. The visit may be voluntary and or on the invitation. But it should be mutual.

2. The guest must get gifts for the host according to his status.

3. If there is a lack of space in the host's house, the guest must stay outside.

4. The guest should not visit when the host has another guest.

5. The guest should not visit during exam time for children.

6. The guest must come forward to share outside expenses with the host.

7. The guest must share the domestic chores with the host.

8. The guest must adhere to the timings, food habits etc of the host.

9. It is better to avoid discussions on controversial topics.

10. If the visit is for sightseeing, the guest should make his own arrangements.

11. The stay must not exceed 3 to 5 days covering weekends/holidays.

12. It is better not to give special attention to our family members.

13. We should ignore the fight, if any, among the children.

14. We must handle their household equipment with care and concern.

15.Any other welcome steps you are already following.

HEART ATTACK

Do you know what a heart attack is?

A heart attack (myocardial infarction) occurs when a blocked artery stops blood and oxygen from reaching a section of the heart muscle. If the blockage is not quickly reopened, that part of the heart begins to die. It is a life-threatening medical emergency requiring immediate help.

A heart attack can be both sudden or preceded by warning signs. While some strike intensely without notice, many build slowly over hours, days, or even weeks, giving the body time to signal that something is wrong.

Nobody knows whether a heart attack is painful or not unless one experiences it. If it is a mild attack, there may be slight pain and discomfort. 

If it is a major attack, nobody can explain as he won’t be alive. I asked Google and the answer is given below:

A heart attack is often painful, but it varies wildly. While some experience a crushing, sudden agony, others feel only mild discomfort, tightness, or nothing at all—often mistaking it for heartburn or indigestion. 

Symptoms can last for several minutes or come and go. Key warning signs to look out for include: 

Chest Discomfort: 

Pain, pressure, fullness, or a squeezing sensation in the center or left side of the chest.

Upper Body Pain: 

Discomfort spreading to one or both arms, the back, neck, jaw, or stomach.

Shortness of Breath: 

Feeling winded, often happening before or alongside chest discomfort.

Other Signs: 

Sudden dizziness, breaking out in a cold sweat, nausea, or unexpected fatigue. 

Symptoms can be subtler and vary between men, women, and older adults, who might only experience unusual fatigue, abdominal pain, or shortness of breath.

If you suspect you or someone else is experiencing these symptoms, you must seek medical attention immediately. Always call your local emergency services (such as 112 in India, 911 in the US.)

Source: Google.

DRESSES.

The dress is one of the three necessities of life viz food, shelter and clothing. It is just to protect us from the weather. 

We give a lot of importance to the dress. There are two different attitudes in dressing. 

1. To dress for self-satisfaction. 

2. To dress for other's appreciation. 

Most people dress for other's appreciation.

The irony is, no one observes what the other person is wearing. Everyone is busy on his own. 

You tell me honestly how many times you have observed other's dresses. No, you would not have unless it is unbearable to look at or something different.

I am unable to understand why people give so much importance to dresses. In the case of a new dress, you have an interest-only on the first time you wear it. Next time you don't give any importance to it. 

My suggestion is to wear a dress that is suitable for your age, profession, status, occasion and personal liking.

YOU CAN ALSO WRITE !!!

Good communication through writing is the essence of life. Whether it is one para or one page, either English or Tamil, never be satisfied with what you have drafted. 

In case you have any doubt, refer to Google for grammar, usage, meaning, spelling, synonyms [words with similar meaning], etc. The more you use Google, the more the knowledge you gain. 

You read the passage again and again for any correction, improvement, modification, comprehension, etc. 

Do not hesitate or feel shy to clear your doubts from a learned person. Only when you are fully satisfied with the passage, you decide to publish it. 

To learn swimming, you must plunge into the water. You cannot learn on the floor. There is nothing impossible in this world. I wish you all success in good writing.

1. Express in simple words what you have in your mind.

2. Say a few words about the book you have recently read.

3. Post articles of value by our gurus like Paramacharya.

4. Write about a good movie you have recently seen.

5. Comedy tracks/songs from movies.

6. Post about the good music you have enjoyed.

7. Post poems by great authors like Thiruvalluvar etc.

8. Narrate an incident that happened to you today

9. Write about your past memories which are not secret/hurting

10. Write something you think useful for the younger generation.

11. Recent developments in engineering, medicine, etc

12. Any other item of your choice.

DEATH.

What is Death?

Death is the permanent cessation of all vital biological functions that sustain life—the irreversible loss of heartbeat, breathing, and brain activity. For healthy, disciplined individuals aging gracefully, natural signs of an approaching end typically manifest much later as a gentle, gradual systemic shutdown rather than sudden decline. 

Indications That Death is Nearing:

When death is naturally approaching, whether from advanced age or underlying illness, the body gradually conserves energy and slowly shuts down. This process generally unfolds over a period of weeks, days, or hours, with common, recognizable signs: 

Increased Fatigue & Sleep: 

The body's metabolism slows down. Individuals often sleep much more, slip into unconsciousness, or become unarousable in the final hours.

Decreased Appetite and Thirst: 

The digestive system slows down because the body no longer requires energy from food. Swallowing eventually becomes difficult.

Changes in Vital Signs: 

Blood pressure drops and the pulse becomes weak or hard to detect. Breathing patterns fluctuate, often alternating between deep breaths and shallow breaths or pauses (known as Cheyne-Stokes breathing).

Reduced Circulation: 

As blood flow prioritizes the core organs, extremities like the hands, feet, and knees can become cold to the touch and may develop mottled or blotchy (bluish-gray) skin.

Decreased Waste Output:

Because food and fluid intake decline, urinary output drops or stops, and bowel movements reduce.

Mental & Sensory Changes: Restlessness, intermittent confusion, or hallucinations (like speaking to deceased relatives) are normal as the nervous system changes.

To explore the stages of life and the end-of-life timeline in greater detail, you can read the guide on the Marie Curie Stages of Dying platform, or review the Healthline Signs of Death article.

Focus on Healthy Aging:

A highly disciplined routine—walking, healthy diet, good sleep hygiene, and active cognitive habits are excellent practices to promote longevity. Staying physically and mentally active helps preserve both muscle mass and brain health, which are vital for healthy aging.

Source: Google.