எண்ணமும் செயலும்.

ஒருவருடைய செயல் சரியா அல்லது தவறா என்று கண்டு பிடிக்கஅவருடைய என்ணத்தையும் செயலையும் பார்க்க வேண்டும். இரண்டில்எண்ணம் மிகவும் முக்கியம்.

1. நல்ல எண்ணத்துடன் கூடிய நல்ல செயல் எப்போதும் சரியானது.

2. நல்ல எண்ணத்துடன் கூடிய தவறான செயலும் சரியானதே.

உ-ம் ;ஒரு பெண்ணின் அருகே ஒரு தேள் வருகிறது. அவளைக் காப்பாற்றஅவள் கையை பற்றி இழுக்கிறாய். செயல் தவறாக இருந்தாலும் எண்ணம்சரியாக இருக்கிறது. அதனால் அந்தச் செயல் சரியானதே.

3. தவறான எண்ணத்துடன் செய்யும் நல்ல செயல் தவறானதே.

உ-ம்: உன்னிடம் மிகவும் அழுக்கான ரூபாய் நோட்டு இருக்கிறது. அதையாரும் வாங்க மறுக்கிறார்கள். அதை ஒரு பிச்சைக்காரனுக்கு போடுகிறாய். பிச்சை போடுவது நல்ல செயல். ஆனால் எண்ணம் தவறானது. அதனால்அந்த செயலும் தவறானதே.

4. தவறான எண்ணத்துடன் கூடிய தவறான செயல் எப்போதும் தவறானதே.

Love marriage vs arranged marriage.

This morning during my walk, I saw a college-going boy and a girl aged about 18, fair and good looking, coming from the opposite direction, carrying shoulder bags, holding their hands and before crossing me, talking, laughing, giggling, fighting, arguing, slapping, and smiling. They are in love. How far it is going to be successful is a question mark. 

Marriage is a very important social institution. The basis for any marriage is loving, caring, sharing, adjusting, accepting, accommodating, understanding and tolerating. It has been scientifically proved that 99.99% of the DNA for all human beings is the same and only 0.01% differs. This 0.01% contributes to all the differences between individuals.

Every individual wants to have a perfect match, but the criteria for choosing the partner is different. In love marriages, individuals prefer to choose their partners on their own, while in the case of arranged marriages individuals prefers partners chosen by their family or parents. There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose a partner for marriage. Let’s analyze which one of the two is better.

Love marriage

1. Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.

2. The couple is aware of each other’s likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well. 

3. While making love, the boys do various things to please the girls but they are different after marriage. 

4. Mostly the lover turns a husband which breaks the heart of the girl. If they continue to be lovers even after marriage, then there will ever be happy.

5. The couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else. 

6. The couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to make such decisions .

7. The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

Arranged marriage:

Parents do not consider that their children are matured enough to take an independent decision on marriage. They are unable to digest the fact that their children have taken the decision without even consulting them. So they take it as an insult. Also, they are much worried in case of any eventuality.

1. In an arranged marriage, you do not know anything about the spouse and you have no expectation. 

2. You are happy even if you get reasonable satisfaction and you can improve upon it in due course. 

3. Arranged Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a confluence of two families. 

4. Two families involved in arranged marriages know each other very well and are compatible with each other. 

5. Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated. 

6. The couple is guided by parents experience whereas in love marriage couple is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.

Conclusion:

Both ways have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of a lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, it’s the couple who have to live together for a lifetime. So, the decision to choose a life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately no one can certify the best way for a perfect married life because like life marriages too are full of uncertainties.

According to research, in India arranged marriages are more and love marriages are less for ethical, moral, cultural, traditional, regional, linguistic, communal, economical, and religious reasons. In cosmopolitan and well to do families this concern does not arise due to the money power and the independence of the children.   

DETAILS TAKEN FROM GOOGLE: In fact, today up to 90 percent of marriages in India and 60 percent of all marriages in the world are arranged. Divorce rates in India overall are pegged at about 1.2 percent. In India rates of divorce in love marriages are much higher than in arranged marriages. According to a 2012 study by Statistic Brain, the global divorce rate for arranged marriages was 6 percent — a significantly low number. Compared to the 55 percent of marriages in the world that are arranged, this low statistic shows the success rate of arranged marriages. 

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3396. Earlier, saints had sacred bowls (திருவோடு)and people had money. Now people have sacred bowls and saints have money.

3397. One must not only be fortunate to have good parents but also good children. Then only his life will be happy and peaceful.

3398. For all tests you have to read well and go to they exam centre. But for eye test you have to go to the exam centre and read well.

3399. Two modern day great kings who have brought peace and happiness to people in this world are smoKING and drinKING.

3400. An otrovert is a person who balances introversion and extroversion with ease. They feel no sense of belonging to any group.

3401. In any alliance, people tend to look at the minus points of the other side and the plus points of their ward. It should be the opposite.

3402. You are truly mature only when you speak the truth, accept your mistakes without putting the blame on others, and say sorry.

3403. Flamingos are pink because their diet contains carotenoids. Their liver breaks down and deposits it in their feathers, to appear pink.

3404. 19 years old Student who got 99.99 percentile in NEET in Maharashtra dies by suicide as he didn't want to be a doctor.-news.

3405. Doctors surgically removed 29 spoons, 19 toothbrushes and two pens from a man's stomach in Uttar Pradesh. News.

3406. A lot of problems can be solved only by removing some foods, some people, some habits and some thoughts from your life.

3407. Life is not about being rich, popular, highly educated or being perfect. It is about being real, humble and kind.

3408. Relationships are like electric current. Wrong connection will give shocks through out your life. Right connection lights up life.

3409. The rain stopped for a while. The light came out. I saw the ants immediately coming out going here and there and minding business.

3410. One maid is a sincere and hard working but takes frequent leave. Another maid is a lazy worker but never takes leave. Who is better?

Brown eggs vs. white eggs.

The primary difference between brown and white eggs is the breed of the hen, not the nutritional value, taste, or quality. White-feathered hens with white earlobes typically lay white eggs, while red or brown-feathered hens with red earlobes lay brown eggs. Brown eggs may be more expensive due to the hens being larger and eating more feed. 

Here are the key differences based on this Times of India article, this Eggoz post, and this Reddit thread:

• Nutritional Value: There is no significant nutritional difference between brown and white eggs. Both contain similar amounts of protein, vitamins, and minerals.
• Taste: The taste is not determined by shell color, but rather by the hen's diet and freshness.
• Cost: Brown eggs can sometimes be more expensive because the hens that lay them are generally larger and consume more feed, notes Times of India.
• Shell Thickness: Brown eggshells may be slightly thicker, but this does not affect the interior quality, say Lohmann Breeders.
• Pigment: Brown eggs have a pigment called protoporphyrin IX, which is absent in white eggs, explains Eggoz. 

Ultimately, the choice between brown and white eggs is a matter of personal preference and availability in your area, says this Times of India article.

Source: Google.

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