Random thoughts 2286 to 2300.

2286. Do not reply when you are angry. Do not promise when you are happy. Do not decide when you are sad.

2287. Saree lovers always break their heads for the best and unique combination of the border with the body and pallav of the saree.

2288. The soft nature of a person does not mean weakness. Nothing is softer than water. But its force can break even the hardest rock.

2289. Of course knowledge gives power. But character gives respect. We have to decide what we want whether power or character?

2290. Mothers think that their daughters are suffering in another family while they are actually enjoying. The reverse is the case for their DIL.

2291. Why are we unhappy? We think that the past is better than the present, and the present is not as expected and the future is uncertain.

2292. Money is just numbers and numbers never end. If we think that money will make us happy, our search for happiness will never end.

2293. Queen Elizabeth, during her lifetime had met American Presidents Truman, Eisenhower, Hoover, Kennedy, Nixon, Ford, Carter, Reagan, Bush, Clinton, Bush Jr, Obama, and Trump.

2294. Earlier people lived together despite life style differences due to financial constraints. Now they don’t live together due to financial freedom.

2295. Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn't need it. And the person who dislikes you won't believe it.

2296. When joint family system was in vogue, the eldest living member of the family was the decision maker (kartha). When the system disintegrated, individual families took their own decisions without external interference.

2297. Physical touch, such as hugging, holding hands, or cuddling, releases oxytocin, a hormone that promotes bonding and reduces stress.

2298. Everyone is suffering from a mental problem knowingly or unknowingly and is unable to comprehend and overcome it.

2299. Reading, writing, listening to music, seeing movies, playing sudoku, walking, helping DIL, eating, sleeping are my routine.

2300. When we are bachelors, we are envious to see married couple. When we are married, we are envious to see bachelors.

How the US is rich and powerful?

How did the United States become one of the wealthiest nations in the world despite being a relatively young country compared to Europe and Asia?

The Americans are a very lucky people. They're bordered to the north and south by weak neighbors and to the east and west by fish.

America is blessed by its geography. The fact that America is blessed by rich and fertile geography yet protected by its geography has influenced US development as a great power much faster than other countries.

The US was shielded by an ocean and a weak and friendly neighbor bordering it; the US adversaries were on the other side of the globe, i.e., Iran, China, and Russia.

This was in contrast with Europe and Asia, as the countries in these parts of the world were now highly growing due to the lack of major conflict in their areas after the Second World War and peaked after the Cold War.

Still, before that, these countries had to deal with strong and threatened neighbors who led to destructive wars that destroyed their wealth and prevented them from growing in the same ways as the US.

The US doesn't have to face the threat of Canada and Mexico becoming so threatening to the US mainland and invading the lower 48 states. 

Throughout history, the Chinese and Koreans had to face growing Japan, the English had to face growing France, France had to face growing Germans, the Germans had to face growing Russians, India had to face the Pakistan and so on. 

Wars happened, killed millions, and destroyed the livelihood of that country, and it takes time to recover.

Meanwhile, with its secure geography and rich natural resources, America could sit an ocean away, build its military, and wage a war that doesn't impact its homeland and dominate the world, making it the wealthiest.

Source: Internet.

THE. WOLF !!!

ASTONISHING FACTS ABOUT THE WOLF:

The wolf never eats corpses, neither animals, nor people; it spends its whole life with a partner, it does not mate with its mother or sister; it is a monogamous (single partner) animal, it does not deceive.

If a partner dies, the wolf remains alone; it knows its little ones well: it is the only animal that helps their parents after a deep old age and brings them food.

When you kill a wolf, it looks you in the eye until its soul abandons it; it's 25% smarter than the smarter dog, and is the only animal that doesn't obey trainng, they say. 

Wolves think, dream, plan, communicate with each other intelligently and are more like us than any other living being.

SOME USEFUL TIPS !!

1. Be nice, but do not allow others to take advantage.

2. Prioritise what is important in life.

3. Value good friends and keep them close.

4. Keep secrets.

5. Live within the income. Start saving.

6. Read books.

7. Don't smoke / drink alcohol.

8. Exercise and stay healthy.

9. See things from other’s perspective.

10. Be open to change.

11. Don't spend money to impress  people.

12. Lose weight/ get in shape.

13. Procrastination greatly affects the life.

14. Cut out the soda, drink more water.

WORDS OF WISDOM FOR MEN !!

1. Be a man of your words. Always walk the talk.

2. Money doesn't make you classy. Manners and pure heart will do that for you.

3. Choose a woman, not a girl.

4. Be down to earth. Be polite.

5. Never give her/them the satisfaction to let you suffer.

6. Win argument by logic, not by anger. Sometime agree to disagree.

7. Time is limited. Don't waste it.

8. You are alone. No one going to help you. Be one man army.

9. Never let the feeling of anger and revenge consume you.

10 Forgive and let go. Forgive others. Forgive yourself.

11 Hangout with people smarter than you. You will learn from them.

12 Don't get into argument with an illogical girl who use her gender as her shield. You will lose.

13 Don't get into gossips. Never bitch about anyone.

14 People are not blind. Nobody can manipulate the whole crowd. Be honest.

15 Your parents are more important than your friends, girlfriend, late night parties and over-time in office.

GREATNESS !!

After I became the president, I took my escort to a restaurant for lunch. We sat down and ordered what we wanted.

On the next table, there was a man waiting to be served. When he was served, I said to my escort: “go and ask that gentleman to join us. He went and conveyed my invitation to him. The man got up, took his plate and sat down next to me.

While he ate, his hands trembled constantly and he did not lift his head from his food. When we finished, he said goodbye without looking at me, I shook his hand and left.

The escort asked me:

Madiba, that man must have been very ill, seeing as his hands didn't stop shaking while he ate.-

Absolutely no! the reason for his trembling is another.

Then I told him:

That man was the warden of the prison where I stayed. After he tortured me, I screamed and cried asking for some water and he came humiliated me, laughed at me and instead of giving me water, he urinated in my head.

He was not sick, he was afraid that I, now president of South Africa, would send him to prison and do to him what he did to me. But I'm not like that, this conduct is not part of my character, nor of my ethics.

′′Minds that seek revenge destroy states, while those that seek reconciliation build nations. Walking out the door to my freedom, I knew that if I didn't leave all the anger, hatred and resentment behind me, I would still be a prisoner."

Nelson Mandela.

பிரபஞ்ச விதி.

விபத்தில் பலத்த காயமடைந்த ஒருவர் மிகவும் மோசமான நிலையில், மருத்துவமனைக்கு கொண்டு செல்லப்பட்டார். மருத்துவமனையின் உரிமையாளரான மருத்துவர் நோயாளியைப் பார்த்தவுடன், அவர் உடனடியாக ஐசியூவில் அவரை விசாரிக்கச் சென்றார்.

2-3 மணிநேர அறுவை சிகிச்சைக்குப் பிறகு,மருத்துவர் வெளியே வந்து,

"இவருக்கு இங்கு எந்த விதமான சிரமமோ, அசௌகரியமோ ஏற்படாமல் பார்த்துக் கொள்ளுங்கள்...

மேலும் , அந்த நபரிடம் சிகிச்சை மற்றும் மருந்துகளுக்கு பணம் எடுக்க வேண்டாம்" என்றும் தனது ஊழியர்களிடம் கூறி சென்றார்.

நோயாளி சுமார் 15-20 நாட்கள் மருத்துவமனையில் இருந்தார்.

அவர் நன்றாக குணமடைந்து மருத்துவமனையில் இருந்து டிஸ்சார்ஜ் செய்யும் போது டாக்டர் அவருடைய மேனேஜரை அழைத்து, அந்த நோயாளியை என் கேபினுக்கு அழைத்து வாருங்கள்" என்றார்.

நோயாளி சக்கர நாற்காலியில் மருத்துவர் அறைக்கு அழைத்து வரப்பட்டார். மருத்துவர் நோயாளியிடம், "தம்பி! என்னை அடையாளம் தெரிகிறதா?"

நோயாளி கூறினார், "நான் உங்களை எங்கேயோ பார்த்திருக்கிறேன் என்று நினைக்கிறேன். ஆனால் எங்கே என்று ஞாபகம் இல்லை..."

டாக்டர் சொன்னார், "நாலு வருஷத்துக்கு முன்னாடி, சூரியன் மறையும் சமயத்துல ஊருக்கு அப்பால் அந்த காட்டில் ஒரு காரை சரி பண்ணினீங்க. இப்போது ஞாபகம் வருகிறதா?"

"ஆமா சார், நல்லா ஞாபகம் இருக்கு..."

"அன்றைய தினம் நான் எனது குடும்பத்துடன் சுற்றுலா சென்று கொண்டிருந்த போது, கார் பழுதாகி விட்டது. சுற்றிலும் வெறிச்சோடிய காடுதான் இருந்தது. குடும்பத்தில் அனைவரின் முகத்திலும் கவலையும் பயமும் படர்ந்திருந்தது. நாங்கள் அனைவரும் ஏதாவது உதவி செய்ய கடவுளிடம் பிரார்த்தனை செய்தோம்.

சிறிது நேரத்தில் ஒரு அதிசயம் நடந்தது. நீங்கள் பைக்கில் வந்தீர்கள்...பைக்கை நிறுத்திவிட்டு எங்கள் பிரச்சனைக்கு காரணம் கேட்டீர்கள். பிறகு காரின் பானட்டைத் திறந்து சரிபார்த்தீர்கள். சில நிமிடங்களில் கார் ஓடத் தொடங்கியது. நாங்கள் அனைவரும் மிகவும் மகிழ்ச்சியாகவும் நிம்மதியாகவும் வீடு வந்து சேர்ந்தோம்.

அந்த வனாந்திரக்காட்டில் இரவைக் கழிக்க வேண்டும்' என்ற எண்ணமே எங்களுக்குக் குமுறலை ஏற்படுத்தியதால், எல்லாம் வல்ல இறைவன் உன்னை எங்களிடம் அனுப்பியது போல் உணர்ந்தோம்.

நீங்கள் ஒரு கேரேஜ் நடத்துகிறீர்கள் என்று சொன்னீர்கள். அத்தகைய கடினமான சூழ்நிலையில் உங்கள் உதவிக்கு விலை இல்லை, அது விலைமதிப்பற்றது. ஆனாலும், நான் உங்களிடம்,: "எவ்வளவு பணம் வேண்டும்?" என்று கேட்டேன்.

அந்த நேரத்தில்,நீங்கள் கூப்பிய கைகளுடன் பேசிய வார்த்தைகள்,

“எனது விதியும் கொள்கையும் என்னவெனில்...பிரச்சனையில் இருப்பவரின் உதவிக்காக நான் எதையும் திரும்பப் பெறுவதில்லை.

இந்த வேலையின் கணக்கை என் கடவுள் வைத்திருப்பார்." என்றீர்கள்.

அந்த வார்த்தைகள் என் வாழ்க்கைக்கு உத்வேகம் அளித்தன. பெயரளவிலான வருமானம் உள்ள ஒருவரால் இவ்வளவு உயர்ந்த எண்ணங்களும், மதிப்புகளும் இருக்க முடியும் என்றால்...,அவற்றை நாமும் பின்பற்றினால் என்ன?' என்று அன்று நினைத்தேன்.

அன்றிலிருந்து, இன்று வரை அதை கடைபிடித்து வருகிறேன். நான்கு வருடங்கள் ஆகியும், எனக்கு எந்தக் குறையும் இல்லை. உண்மையில், நான் முன்பை விட ஒப்பீட்டளவில் அதிகமாகப் பெறுகிறேன்.

இன்று, இந்த மருத்துவமனை என்னுடையது. நீங்கள் இங்கே என் விருந்தாளி. உங்கள் சொந்த விதியின்படி... என்னால் உங்களிடமிருந்து எதையும் வாங்க முடியாது.

இது போன்ற சேவைகள் கடவுளின் அருளாகும். "நீங்கள் இப்போது சந்தோஷமாக வீட்டிற்குச் செல்லுங்கள், உங்களுக்கு எந்தப் பிரச்சினை வந்தாலும், நீங்கள் தயங்காமல் என்னிடம் வரலாம்." மருத்துவர் கூறிவிட்டு கேபினை விட்டு வெளியே சென்றார்.

*அந்த நபர் அறையில் வைக்கப்பட்டிருந்த இறைவனின் படத்தைப் பார்த்ததும், அவன் கைகள் தானாக உயர்ந்து, தானாக இணைந்தன...அவன் கண்களில் கண்ணீர் பெருகியது. அவனது இதயம் அளவற்ற ஆனந்ததால் நிறைந்தது.

நாம் செய்யும் செயல்கள் நமக்கே திரும்பி வருகின்றன. அதுவும் ஆர்வத்துடன். அனைத்து பாவ, புண்ணிய கணக்குகளும் சரியாக நிர்ணயம் செய்யப்படுகிறது.

*இதுதான் பிரபஞ்ச விதி.*

மகிழ்ச்சியான வாழ்வுக்கு !!

மகிழ்ச்சியான வாழ்வுக்கு வேதாத்திரி மகரிஷியின் 18 தத்துவங்கள்!

1. பேச்சிலும் நடத்தையிலும், பண்பில்லாத வார்த்தைகளையும் தேவையற்ற மிடுக்கையும் காட்டுவதை தவிர்த்து, அடக்கத்தையும் பண்பையும் காட்டுங்கள்.

2. பிரச்னைகள் ஏற்படும்போது மற்றவர்கள் முதலில் இறங்கி வர வேண்டும் என காத்திருக்காமல் நீங்களே பேச்சை துவக்க முன் வாருங்கள். யாரையும் ஒப்பிடாதீர்கள்.

3. எல்லோரிடமும் எல்லா விஷயங்களையும் அவர்களுக்கு சம்பந்தம் உண்டோ இல்லையோ சொல்லிக் கொண்டிருக்காதீர்கள்.

4. புன்முறுவல் காட்டவும் சிற்சில அன்பு சொற்களை கூறவும் கூட நேரம் இல்லாதது போல் நடந்து கொள்ளாதீர்கள்.

5. கேள்விப்படுகிற எல்லா விஷயங்களையும் நம்பி விடாதீர்கள்.

6. அவ்வப்போது நேரில் சந்தித்து மனம் திறந்து பேசுங்கள்.

7. அற்ப விஷயங்களை பெரிது படுத்தாதீர்கள்.

8. மற்றவர்களைவிட உங்களையே எப்போதும் உயர்த்தி நினைத்து கர்வப்படாதீர்கள். தயக்கத்துடனும் பயத்துடனும் பேசாமலும் இருக்காதீர்கள்.

9. மற்றவர் கருத்துகளை, செயல்களை, நிகழ்ச்சிகளையும் தவறாக புரிந்து கொள்ளாதீர்கள்.

10. உண்மை எது,  பொய் எது  என்று விசாரிக்காமல் இங்கு கேட்டதை அங்கு சொல்வதையும் அங்கு கேட்டதை இங்கு சொல்வதையும் விடுங்கள். உங்களை நோக்கி அது ஒருநாள் திரும்பும்.

11. நீங்கள் சொன்னதே சரி, செய்ததே சரி என்று வாதிடாதீர்கள். நீங்கள் முடியவே முடியாது என்று நினைத்ததை உலகில் ஒருவன் செய்து கொண்டிருப்பான்.

12.. உங்கள் கருத்துகளில் உடும்பு பிடியாய் இல்லாமல், கொஞ்சம் தளர்த்திக் கொள்ளுங்கள். பிடிவாதத்தை கைவிடுங்கள்.

13.  அளவுக்கு அதிகமாய், தேவைக்கு அதிகமாய் ஆசைப்படாதீர்கள். திருப்தி என்பது எல்லாவற்றிலும் மிக முக்கியம்.

14. அர்த்தம் இல்லாமலும் பின்விளைவு அறியாமலும் பேசிக் கொண்டே இருப்பதை விடுங்கள்.

15. எந்த விஷயத்தையும் பிரச்னையையும் நாசூக்காக கையாளுங்கள்.

16. சில நேரங்களில் சில சங்கடங்களை சகித்துதான் ஆக வேண்டும் என்பதை மனதார உணருங்கள்.

17. 'நானே பெரியவன் நானே சிறந்தவன்' என்ற அகந்தையை விடுங்கள். வல்லவனுக்கு வல்லவன் இருக்கிறான்.

18. மற்றவர்களுக்கு மரியாதை காட்டவும், இனிய இதமான சொற்களை பயன்படுத்தவும் தவறாதீர்கள.

INTELLIGENCE VS. WISDOM.

1. Intelligence leads to arguments. Wisdom leads to settlements.

2. Intelligence is power of will. Wisdom is power OVER  will.

3. Intelligence is heat, it burns. Wisdom is warmth, it comforts.

4. Intelligence is pursuit of knowledge, it tires the seeker. Wisdom is pursuit of truth, it inspires the seeker.

5. Intelligence is holding on. Wisdom is letting go.

6. Intelligence leads you. Wisdom guides you.

7. An intelligent man thinks he knows everything. A wise man thinks that there is still something to learn.

8. An intelligent man always tries to prove his point. A wise man knows there really is no point.

9. An intelligent man freely gives unsolicited advice. A wise man keeps his counsel until all options are considered.

10. An intelligent man understands what is being said. A wise man understands what is left unsaid.

11. An intelligent person speaks when he has to say something. A wise person speaks when he has something to say.

12. An intelligent man sees  everything as relative. A wise man sees everything as related.

13. An intelligent man tries to control the mass flow. A wise man navigates the mass flow.

14. An intelligent man preaches.A wise man reaches.

Intelligence is good but wisdom achieves better results.

HOW TO IMPROVE IN LIFE?

1. Go to sleep if you feel sleepy.

2. Don't waste time thinking plastic bottles cause cancer, it is very rare.

3. Try to solve each problem only when it hits in your head.

4. Speak less. Listen more.

5. Say ’no‘ to things that aren't going to help in achieving your goal.

6. Live in the present. Don’t worry about the future and the past.

7. Never Speak loudly always unless you are happy, angry or in authority.

8. Wake up before everyone in your family and make your bed. Drink a glass of water and start your day.

9. Stop using Instagram but a little bit of facebook can keep you connected to the world.

10. It's always a good idea to voice call anyone and save your time.

11. Do any simple exercise daily preferably in the morning for at least 20 minutes.

12. Forget the pills for simple disorders like headache or acidity.

13. Read as many books as you can.

14. Stop blaming others for your failure.

LIFE TECHNIQUES !!!

1. Don't worry about what other people think of you.

2. Porn, drugs, and alcohol have no advantages. You get poorer, dumber, and fatter as a result.

3. You still have time to enjoy a good time, but first work on improving your financial, physical, and emotional health.

4. Set out 40 minutes daily to learn a high-income skill, exercise, and meditate, and you'll be unstoppable.

5. Make your financial stability a top priority. Money makes life ten times easier.

6. Your life has been a complete mess because of your "I'll do it tomorrow" mentality. Act now for the future.

7. Have self-respect and never tolerate disrespect from others, not even from your friends.

8. Stop daydreaming about your future and put forth the effort to achieve your goals. Risking is better than regretting.

9. Stop staying in your comfort zone, it will only prevent you from growing.

10. Do not waste your energy worrying. Use your powers to think, learn, create, and grow.

TEACHER VS GURU.

A teacher takes responsibility for your growth. A Guru makes you responsible for your growth.

A teacher gives you things you do not have and require. A Guru takes away things you have and do not require.

A teacher answers your questions. A Guru questions your answers.

A teacher helps you get out of the maze. A Guru destroys the maze.

A teacher requires obedience and discipline from the pupil. A Guru requires trust and humility from the pupil.

A teacher clothes you and prepares you for the outer journey. A Guru strips you naked and prepares you for the inner journey.

A teacher is a guide on the path. A Guru is a pointer to the way.

A teacher sends you on the road to success. A Guru sends you on the road to freedom.

A teacher explains the world and its nature to you. A Guru explains yourself and your nature to you.

A teacher makes you understand how to move about in the world. A Guru shows you where you stand in relation to the world.

A teacher gives you knowledge and boosts your ego. A Guru takes away your knowledge and punctures your ego.

A teacher instructs you. A Guru constructs you.

A teacher sharpens your mind. A Guru opens your mind.

A teacher shows you the way to prosperity. A Guru shows you the way to posterity.

A teacher reaches your mind. A Guru touches your spirit.

A teacher gives you knowledge. A Guru makes you wise.

A teacher gives you maturity. A Guru returns you to innocence.

A teacher instructs you on how to solve problems. A Guru shows you how to resolve issues.

A teacher is a systematic thinker. A Guru is a lateral thinker.

A teacher will punish you with a stick. A Guru will punish you with compassion.

A teacher is to pupil what a father is to son. A Guru is to pupil what mother is to her child.

One can always find a teacher. But a Guru has to find and accept you.

A teacher leads you by the hand. A Guru leads you by example.

When a teacher finishes with you, you celebrate. When a Guru finishes with you, life celebrates.

When the course is over you are thankful to the teacher. When the discourse is over you are grateful to the Guru.

Let us honour both, the teachers and the Guru in our life.

Random thoughts 2271 to 2285.

2271. Before telling a woman or a man "I love you", make sure that you know the real meaning, depth, weight and responsibility of those words.

2272. When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says. If possible always hug her to calm her down.

2273. The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed.

2274. The wedding certificate with a woman is not a " Driving license", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her.

2275. A woman can be very bitter in a moment, but very sweet angel the next moment, it all lies in our approach. Treat her right always.

2276. All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

2277. People want to be acknowledged, accepted, and appreciated. It takes nothing to give it. Empires have risen and fallen because of it.

2278. Instead of saying, "I know," say, "You're right." It will make you a good friend and they will feel smarter, and easier to work with.

2279. What I appreciate in iPhone is its ability to suggest appropriate words while typing. I would like to know the views of Android users.

 

2280. According to me, most of the blockbuster movies are not good movies and most of the good movies are not blockbusters.

2281. Restraining oneself in giving opinion is the most difficult thing to follow. If you do not agree, keep quiet. If you agree, appreciate. That is all.

2282. There are two categories of English knowing people. 1. Who learned from Wren & Martin 2. Who have not studied Wren & Martin.

2283. If we develop the habit of looking at anything from “other’s angle” then we will never have misunderstanding, argument or fight.

2284. When you talk, you are repeating what you already know. But if you listen you may learn something new.

2285. Couples who laugh together for at least 10 minutes each day will have a stronger relationship.

COMMUNICATION.

God has endowed all living beings with the art of communicating. Effective communication means the exchange of ideas, thoughts, opinions, knowledge, and information so that it is understood clearly by the listener.

Professional communication is defined as oral, written, digital, or visual forms of information at the workplace. It also involves speaking, writing, and responding within the workplace.

It can be verbal and non-verbal, written, or even virtual so that participants are able to develop their professional communications skills.

The following are the seven “C”s of Communication.

1. Clear.

2. Concise.

3. Concrete.

4. Correct.

5. Coherent.

6. Complete.

7. Courteous.

Clear (Clarity) 

Be clear about your message. Present one idea at a time and make it easier to understand. Do not make the listener to guess and fill in the gaps.

Concise (Conciseness) 

Keep to the point and make it short and simple. Do not use unnecessary words. Do not repeat the same point in different ways. This will make it easier to understand.

Concrete(Concreteness) 

Be clear. Ensure that there is enough detail to understand but not too much so that the recipient will be lost. Ensure that the message is factual.

Correct(Correctness) 

Check whether the information is accurate and ensure that it is free from grammatical and spelling mistakes. Check the technical parts are understandable.

Coherent(logical)

Make sure your message is presented logically. The points you make should be linked to the main topic to deliver the objective. Make sure that the tone of the message is the same throughout.

Complete(Completeness) 

Ensure that the listener understands your message and takes action if needed. Also, ensure that specific details are included. Try to avoid people to raise unnecessary questions.

Courteous(Courtesy) 

Your presentation should be polite, friendly, professional, open and honest. Think from the listener’s points of view. This will help you to deliver in a way that is easy to understand.

By following the 7 “C”s of communication you should find your messages much more effective. Good luck.

FACTS OF LIFE !!!

1. If you speak too much, you will lie.

2. If you think too much, you will be depressed.

3. If you cry too much, you will lose sight.

4. If you love too much, you will be lost.

5. If you care too much, you will be taken for granted.

6. If you play too much, you will not be taken seriously often.

7. If you trust too much, you will be betrayed.

8. If you work too much, you will die of stress.

9. If you eat too much, you will be obessed

10. If you sleep too much, you will be idle.

11. If you spend too much, you will have no future.

12. If you wear make up too much, you will lose your beauty.

13. If you look too much, you will lose your focus.

14. If you pursue life too much, you will lose everything.

And lastly...

15. If you expect too much, you will be disappointed. 

Don't be too much because that too much can hurt you so much.