Random thoughts 2766 to 2780.

2766. Richard Hadley, Ian Botham, Kapil Dev and Imran Khan are the best allrounders in the world.

2767. Pre lunch hunger at 11 AM forces everyone to go for a biscuit or snack. Instead have a banana which is low fat, fibre rich and healthy.

2768. In a group, agreeing to anything and everything, does not make you a leader. Only when you learn to say NO, you become a leader.

2769. The glaring difference between the rich and the poor is that the rich spends more money and less water and the poor spends more water and less money.

2770. There were many yesterdays and there will be many tomorrows. But there is only one TODAY. Don’t forget to enjoy it.

2771. LDL cholesterol is bad which forms plaques in arteries. HDL cholesterol is good which takes LDL to liver for neutralising.

2772. Good people give you happiness. Bad people give you experience. Worst people give you lessons. Best people give you memories.

2773. Never hurt these four people. 1. Who gave birth to you. 2. Who is born with you. 3. Who is born for you. 4. Who is born from you.

2774. Past is a waste paper. Present is a newspaper. Future is a question paper. So answer the questions carefully. Else life will be a tissue paper.

2775. If you want to change the world, do it when you are single. Once you are married, you cannot even change the tv channel.

2776. The parrot talks too much but it cannot fly high. But an eagle is silent and it has the power to touch the sky. Be an eagle and not a parrot.

2777. Relationship with a nice person is like a sugarcane. You break it, crush it, squeeze it, beat it, grind it, still you get only sweetness.

2778. When someone is not right for you, they will hurt you to the maximum so that you become stronger and chase them away.

2779. Good Friday is the day of the crucifixion of Jesus. Holy Saturday is the day of laying in the tomb and Easter Sunday is day of Resurrection.

2780. When something good or bad happens, we try to find a reason. Theists call it “effects of Karma”. Atheists call it “cause and effect”

Random thoughts 2751 to 2765.

2751. Extending one hand for helping others is far better than joining two hands in a prayer for their well being.

2753. I asked my granddaughter (14) why do we feel we happy eating chocolate? Do you know the answer? Ans: because of dopamine)

2753. Time is sincere and honest in doing its duty. It does not wait for anyone or for anything. It goes on doing its duty.

2754. The art of making the other person happy by your words and actions is called love. Can we do that?

2755. A study found that most parents tend to favour the daughters, younger siblings are given freedom and older ones are controlled.

2756. If we move close to a person, we will receive love but not respect. If we keep away from a person, we will receive respect but not love.

2757. For our face which we are not able to see, we give the maximum attention. For our feet which we are able to see, we don’t give any attention.

2758. Don Bradman, Viv Richards, Adam Gilchrist, Chris Gayle, Sanath Jayasurya, and Virender Sehwag are the most feared batsmen in the world.

2759. A study showed that men fall in love one month earlier than women to show that they can win. Women care more for the loved ones.

2760. New York mayor Mr. Eric Adams has declared April 14th as BR Ambedkar’s memorial day. What a great gesture !!!!

2761. In the poor man’s house, hunger is the reason for diseases. In a rich man’s house food is the reason for diseases.

2762. Some people never give a negative reply. But they never give a positive reaction. That is an intelligent trait.

2763. In the US, it is practically difficult to meet friends due to distance, time and fares unless they live in the same locality.

2764. A little boy asked his sister “what is love?”

She said, “you steal my chocolate daily and I keep it in the same place.” That is love.

2765. He used to think that drinking alcohol was bad for his health. So he stopped thinking and continued drinking.

Random thoughts 2736 to 2750.

2736. We have a mindset that often says that this is right and this is wrong without even knowing whether it is actually right or wrong.

2737. The most expensive liquid in the world is the TEARS. It is 1% water 99% feelings. Don’t hurt anyone, anytime, anymore.

2738. It is not enough if you know maths tables up to 16. When you go to the US you must know 80s tables to convert dollars into rupees.

2739. Most of the problems between the husband and wife flare up because they share it with others especially their parents.

2740. Life is full of compromises. A person who is unwilling to or unable to compromise will suffer a lot in his life.

2741. Everyone has mental issues. Some are wearing new clothes. Some with old clothes. Some with torn clothes.

2742. Whatever you receive is the gift of God. Be thankful. Whatever you lose is the opportunity for the other. Be careful.

2743. Marriage is the time when both the husband and wife sit together to open the Pandora’s box. What they will get is only known to God.

2744. Most of the people think that marriage is the union of man and woman physically. But actually they don’t know that it is mentally.

2745. Most of the things that we receive are the returns for what we did earlier. So cry silently and enjoy openly.

2746. Sympathetic pregnancy or Cauvade syndrome is a condition where the husband gets the symptoms and emotions of his pregnant wife.

2747. If you are a senior citizen, for heaven’s sake, never poke your head in the get-together of your children with their friends.

2748. Do you know that men and women tease each other not because of hatred but because of love for the other?

2749. You will have to wear a dress that is suitable for your age, profession, status, occasion and your personal liking.

2750. When a person does something not to your liking, look at him with sympathy and kindness without getting angry.

Random thoughts 2721 to 2735.

2721. Three things we should not ask. They are time to share, love and respect. Those who care for us will give without even asking for it.

2722. Better not to talk whatever that comes to our mind. We should think thrice what effect our words will cause on others before talking.

2723. Stress is the gap between expectations and reality. The more the gap, more the stress. So expect nothing and accept everything.

2724. When nails grow we cut the nails and not the fingers. When misunderstanding grows, cut the ego and not the relationship.

2725. To love without conditions, to talk without intentions, to give without reason, to care without expectation is the spirit of love.

2726. What is MONEY? It is nothing but a “piece of paper” which nobody has so far dared to put it into a waste paper basket.

2727. There was a time when youngsters used to prostrate before the elders to seek their blessings. Now no one cares for blessings.

2728. As I get older and older, I tend to forget my glasses. Hey, don’t take it otherwise. It is not bear, whiskey or wine glasses.

2729. Patience and silence are two powerful energies. Patience makes you mentally strong. Silence makes you emotionally strong.

2730. Anger makes your mouth work faster than your mind. It does not build, create or solve anything. It only destroys everything.

2731. A hungry stomach, an empty pocket, loneliness and a broken heart can teach you the best lessons of life.

2732. Sometimes settling scores in a fight may increase the love but keeping silence may worsen the misunderstanding.

2733. Marriage is just a fancy word which means a girl adopting and taming a grown up boy who cannot be controlled by his parents.

2734. Expecting and accepting are two sides of life. Expecting ends in tears while accepting ends in happiness. Choice is yours.

2735. If a woman treats her husband as a servant, she becomes a servant’s wife. If she treats him as a king, she becomes a queen.

நற்சிந்தனை !!

விதுரர் திருதராஷ்டிரருக்கும், பாண்டுவுக்கும் தம்பி. பாண்டவர்களுக்கும் கெளரவர்களுக்கும் சித்தப்பா. விதுரரின் தாயார் ஒரு பணிப் பெண்ணாக இருந்தவர். விதுரர் மகா நீதிமான். தருமத்திலிருந்து சிறிதளவும் நழுவாதவர். 100 வயது வரை வாழ விதுரர் சொன்ன நீதி சாஸ்திரம் கீழே!

திருதராஷ்டிரன் விதுரரைப் பார்த்து, மனிதனுக்கு ஆயுள் 100 வருடங்கள் என்று சொல்லப்பட்டிருக்கிறது. இருந்தும், முழுமையான ஆயுள் வரை யாரும் வாழ்வதாகத் தெரியவில்லையே  இது ஏன் என்று கேட்டார். அதற்கு விதுரர், 6 கூரிய வாள்கள் தான் மனிதனின் ஆயுளை குறைகின்றன என்றார் 

அவை:

அதிக கர்வம் கொள்ளுதல், அதிகம் பேசுதல், தியாக மனப்பான்மை இல்லாமை, கோபம், சுய நலம், நண்பர்களுக்கு  துரோகம் இழைப்பது.

விதுரர் கூறீய அந்த 6 வாள்கள் எப்படி இருக்கும்? அதைப் போக்க என்ன செய்யவேண்டும்?

#முதலாவது_வாள் 

அதிக கர்வம் கொள்ளுதல்- தான் கெட்டிக்காரன், தான் செல்வந்தன், தான் கொடையாளி, தான் நல்லவன், பிறர் கெட்டவர்கள் என்று நினைப்பதால் கர்வம் அதிகரிக்கிறது. கர்வம் கொண்டவனைக் கடவுள் சீக்கிரம் அழித்து விடுவார். ஆகவே, கர்வம் கொள்ளாமலிருக்க வேண்டுமானால், தன் விஷயத்தில் குற்றங்களைப் பார்க்க வேண்டும். பிறர் விஷயத்தில் குணங்களைப் பார்க்கவேண்டும்.

#இரண்டாவது_வாள் 

அதிகம் பேசுதல்- அதிகம் பேசுகிறவன் வீண் விஷயங்களைப் பற்றிப் பேசி, வீண் வம்பை விலைக்கு வாங்குவான். அதனால்தான் பகவான் கீதையில் கூறுகிறார்; கடுமையில்லாததும், உண்மையானதும், பிரியமானதும், நன்மையைக்கருதியதுமான வார்த்தை எதுவோ, அது வாக்கினால் செய்யப்படும் தவம் என்று.

#மூன்றாவது_வாள்

தியாக மனப்பான்மை இல்லாமை- எல்லாவற்றையும் நாம் தான் அனுபவிக்கவேண்டும் என்கிற ஆசையின் காரணமாகத்தான் நமக்குத் தியாக மனப்பான்மை ஏற்படுவதில்லை.  நாம் இந்த உலகில் பிறந்ததே நமக்காக அல்ல,பிறருக்கு உதவுவதற்காகத்தான் என்று உணர்ந்தால் தியாக மனப்பான்மை ஏற்படும்.

#நான்காவது_வாள் கோபம்- கோபம்தான்  மனிதனுடைய முதல் எதிரி. கோபத்தை வென்றவன்தான் வெற்றியாளன், அவன்தான் உலகில் சுகப்படுவான். கோபத்துக்கு வசப்பட்டவன், தர்மம் எது அதர்மம் எது என்ற விவேகத்தை இழந்து பாவங்கள் செய்கிறான். என்ன தீமைகள் ஏற்பட்டாலும், யார் நம்மைக் கோபித்துக்கொண்டாலும் அவற்றைச் சகித்துக் கொள்ளக் கற்றுக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்.

#ஐந்தாவது_வாள் சுய நலம்- 

சுயநலம்தான் எல்லாத் தீமைகளுக்கும் காரணம். சுயநலம் பாராட்டுகிறவர்கள், தங்கள் காரியம் ஆக வேண்டும் என்பதற்காக எந்தப் பாவத்தையும் செய்ய அஞ்சமாட்டார்கள். பிறர் இன்புறுவதைக் கண்டு இன்புற்று பிறர் துன்புறுவதைக் கண்டுதுன்புற வேண்டும். இப்படிச் செய்தால் சுயநலம் போய்விடும்.

#ஆறாவது_வாள் 

நண்பர்களுக்கு துரோகம் இழைப்பது- உலகில் நல்ல நண்பர்கள் கிடைப்பது அரிது. அவர்களுக்குத் துரோகம் செய்வதைப் போன்ற அநியாயம் உண்டா? பகவான் கீதையில் கூறியிருப்பது போல, நாம் எல்லோருடனும் வெறுப்பின்றியும், நட்பு மனப்பான்மையுடனும், கருணையுடனும் பழக வேண்டும். 

இந்த 6 விஷயங்களிலிருந்தும் ஒருவன் விலகி வாழ்ந்தால் நிச்சயமாக அவன் நூற்றாண்டை நிறைவு செய்வான். இதுவே #விதுரர்_சொன்ன_நீதி

இந்த 3 சமயங்களில் எந்த முடிவும் எடுக்க கூடாது.

1.பசி வயிற்றை கிள்ளும் போது.

2.தூக்கம் நம் கண்களை சுழற்றும் போது.

3.போதையில் இருக்கும் போது.

இந்த 3 சமயங்களில் யாருக்கும் வாக்குறுதி தரக்கூடாது.

1.மிகவும் மகிழ்ச்சியாக இருக்கும் போது.

2.மிகவும் துக்கத்தில் இருக்கும் போது.

3.மிகவும் கோபத்தில் இருக்கும் போது.

இந்த 3 விதமானவர்களின் நட்பை ஒதுக்க வேண்டும்.

1.நம்மைப் பற்றி உணராதவர்கள்.

2.நம்மைக் கண்டு பொறாமை கொள்பவர்கள்.

3.நமக்கு ஈடாக செயல்பட முடியாதவர்கள். 

இந்த 3 பேரை எப்போதும் மறக்கக் கூடாது.

1.ஆபத்தில் நமக்கு உதவி செய்தவர்கள்.

2.நம் குறைகளை பெரிது படுத்தாதவர்கள்.

3.நம்முடைய நலத்தை நாடுபவர்கள்.

விரோதியை நம்பலாம். ஆனால் துரோகியை ஒரு போதும் நம்பவும் கூடாது. மன்னிக்கவும் கூடாது.

ஒருவருடைய குணம் சரியில்லை என்று அறிந்த பின் அவர்களை விட்டு ஒதுங்கி போவதே நல்லது. இல்லையேல் அவர்கள் தரத்திற்கு நம்மை தாழ்த்திவிடுவார்கள். 

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